It’s a tricky world we live in. Which means tricks are easy to come by, long-lasting relationships, not so easy.
But there’s a new book out that offers up solid advice for gay men seeking to avoid the common pitfalls of dating in the internet age, making a great first impression and when it’s appropriate (if ever) to bring up one’s top/bottom classification or package size.
Written by Selrach Smith, a veteran of both the U.S. Army and the gay dating scene, R U Looking? is a quick, easy-to-read guide that is filled with common sense advice, but also welcome reinforcements of manners and morals.
Most of all, the book gives the reader the confidence to feel in better control of dating situations, whether meeting a guy in person at a nightclub, in an online chat room, or via a GPS-based dating app.
Because sometimes all you need to know about a man can be seen in his bathroom mirror naked selfie.