Forget roses, chocolate, and champagne. (Ok, maybe keep the bubbly in the mix.) The truest way to our heart is through our pants. Because we LOVE sexy underwear. We know we’re not alone, so if you want to score (and score points) this Valentine’s Day, you should check out the massive Project Love Collection from Andrew Christian. Not only do […]
The only thing we like better than a graphic tee is ripping it off the hot guy wearing it. But we also enjoy sporting them ourselves nearly every day as part of our “writer uniform.” So we’re proud to introduce you to one of our favorite new gay-owned businesses, Monkey & The Bee. The Dallas-based company produces a variety of wearables with […]
Open up the lube drawer on our nightstand and it’s like walking into a Baskin-Robbins. So many flavors. And every variety imaginable for Sunday toppings (or any day of the week). Well, now we have a new addition to our arse-senal: CaraGold Premium Personal Lubricant from Good Clean Love, makers of fine organic intimacy products. This latest in the GCL lineup […]
What could’ve been? That simple question can be one of the most devastating one we ever ask ourselves. What would our life be like if we’d met someone different? Moved to a different city? Traveled more while we were young? But the what if surround a lost love can be the most devastating of all. That’s a central theme in the […]
It’s widely regarded that if you’re not partnered up by the time you’re forty, you’re damaged goods, past your sell-by date and risk being put in the dating half-off bin. We all know that’s a bunch of crap. I mean, there are plenty of fantastic guys out there far north of forty. (Okay, maybe not plenty but you get my […]
Online dating is a godsend for the shy person. Now you don’t have to go to some intimidating bar to chat up strangers with your hands shaking and your heart racing. Today you can flirt shamelessly, fearlessly from the comforting safety of your computer. But eventually, you have to take your online relationship offline, and that’s where many daters get […]
It can be very intimidating to make the first move, whether on a dating website or in person. We fear being judged. Many years ago, there was a book called The Rules which stated women should never talk to men first. And though that book was released for a heterosexual audience, I think a lot of queer people have internalized that message as well. […]
After an online date gives me their full name, the first thing I do is look them up on Google. Maybe it’s because I’m a journalist, but I like to know whom I’m dealing with. I don’t think I’m doing a bad or sneaky thing. I just think of it as a way to protect myself. And I can almost […]
